Aur dekhte hi dekhte fir ek academic year lakhon students ko har bar ki tarah bahut sare stress depression , anxiety , disappointment jaisi kai psychological bimariyan deke khatam ho gaya . Kai students ne to apne grades / results / better placements na milne ke wajah se suicide tak kar lia . Bahut dukh ki bat hai ke parents jiske liye unke bachche hi sabse important hote hai aksar wo hi insab suicides or psychological bimariyon ke liye 50% tak responsible hote hai , aur baki jo kasar hoti hai wo humari pyari EDUCATION SYSTEM and SO – CALLED SOCIETY pura kar deti hai . Hal hi me hume kitni sari suicide news dekhne ko mili jab students ne apne parents , teachers and society ke high expectations ko achieve na kar pane ke pressure me khud ko hi khatam kar dia . And it’s very unfortunate that in this era of 21st century where there are so many professions and streams are available for the students , our society , teachers and most importantly parents force their wards for only becoming either DOCTOR or ENGINEER without considering what the students actually want to be or without concerning about their interests , capabilities , potentialities etc. Aisa lagta hai mano sabhi apne adhure dreams apne bachchon ke through poore karna chahte ho taki unki jhooti shaan ko wo sambhal kar rakh paye aur sare society ke samne SHOW OFF kar sake , unko ye koi fark nai padta ke unke baachchon par isse kitna pressure badhega , aur bechare students jab wo ye high expectations ko pura nahi kar pate to ye sochne lagte hai ke ab humara koi future hi nahi hai , ab hum kya karenge , sabka ho gaya humara nahi hua , hume sab kya kahenge , hum sabko kaise face karenge etc. etc. aur inhi sab tension me akar bachche kuch aisa steps le lete hai jo unhe nahi lena chahiye . Aur kabhi to bachche ji – jaan lagakar bina interest ke doctor , engineering ban bhi jate hai apne parents , teachers aur society ke wajah se but last me unko kabhi satisfactory results nahi mil pata because hum ye jante hai ke jisme humara passion , interest na ho hum wo kabhi achche se nai kar pate . And its often seen that due to these reasons students fall prey to disappointment , depression,anxiety ,etc. Also these reasons may affect the parent – ward , teacher – students relationship . Aur kuch bachchon ko to unke parents forcefully paiso ke dum pe unko medical , engineering courses me unka admission bhi karwa dete hai bina ye soche ke wo ye course continue kar bhi sakenge ya nahi , jiske wajah se bachche ya to extreme pressure me aa jate hai ya ye sochne lagte hai ke jaise humare parents ne hume admission dila dia waise hi wo aage zarur kuch na kuch kar denge aur ye sochkar wo ache se padhai karna hi band kar dete hai , and through this process jo doctors ya engineers taiyar hote hai wo kaise hote hai we already know . And its not beneficial for anyone, balki kisi deserving student ka seat kam ho jata hai aur use chance nahi mil pata .
Ye sab mai isiliye keh pa rahi hu because maine ye sab khud face kia hai and being a teacher I have practically experienced it . But the above mentioned things are not always applicable to each and every parents and teachers . There are some teachers and parents who extremely support , understand and care for their children .
So now the final concern is that what shall we do to overcome this situation ? ? The answer is very simple , FOLLOW AND LET FOLLOW THE PASSION . Hum sabhi ko ye samjhna chahiye ke humare liye humare bachche hi sabse zyada important hai uske bad unka future aur sabse last me humari SO – CALLED SHAAN in the SOCIETY . Hume apne bachchon ko allow karna chahiye taki wo jo chahe wo padh sake aur aage chalkar ek better responsible individual ban sake . Hume unhe batana chahiye ke bas DOCTOR ya ENGINEER banna hi one and only profession nahi hai , iss samay bahut sare aise profession develop ho chuke hai aur aage bhi honge jinka bahut scope hai . Balki I personally feel ki jisme apka interest ho scope usime hai bas aapko chahiye us field me knowledge , interest , spirit and last but not the least you have to develop your SKILLS which is very important . Hum sabhi ko chahiye ke hum bachchon ke sath khulkar sab share kare , apne dreams ko unpar na thope , society ki baato me na aye , apne jhoote show – off ke chakkar me na padkar bachchon ki khushi ke bare soche , unhe support kare , unhe sare fields ke ideas de , unke opinions pe trust kare , understading bane , unko bas achche marks lane ke liye pressurize na kare , unhe theoretical ke sath practical knowledge dene ki koshis kare , aur sabse important unko Skills develop karne me help kare .
This topic is so vast , that it is not possible for me to cover it all in a single blog . In this blog I have only mentioned only few problems faced by the students due to the high expectations imposed on them through their beloved parents and teachers . In my next blog I will be sharing the role of Government and Our Education System for imposing negative impacts on the students .
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